*Disclaimer* This is a story where I advocated the abuse of a woman. If you are easily offended, you should bypass this story and go read about kittens, and rainbows, and Obama.
Right before I broke my leg, I was kicked out of my GURPS group. For those not in the know (like myself right before they introduced me to it), Gurps is a roleplaying system. Think DND but with fewer rules. I was playing with 3 dudes and a chick. *More Disclaimer* I don't need to hear about how I must be anti-feminist, carry on. Generally, I don't fool with too many chicks. It's simply because I don't have the patience for the nonsense that comes with them. I have spent the better part of two years trying to get into a gaming group here in town that has banned females because they bring drama or otherwise interfere with gameplay. True to sterotypical form, this chick spent almost all gameplay complaining about her abusive home situation. "He teaches our son to hit me. He hit me. He won't pay my fines for that time I was driving uninsured. I'm miserable." All the males in our group were Dudley Do-Right, or most likely Dudly Do-Her pretty please, so they spent a lot of time interrupting game play to tell her they would support her in moving out and getting away from the abusive man.
Abusive man was not there to hear all of this conversation. Abusive man was at work. He was too busy being abusive by working to pay bills to come play Gurps. He was so abusive that she felt the need to call him every 20 minutes. "Hi Honey! I miss you! I am totally not sitting here flirting with three other men while you're at work."
Finally, after listening to this for several hours, I grudglingly admitted that I worked for a place that had several programs to help people like her. Before I type the rest of this, I need to get my mind right. *Most Disclaimer* If Raging Stupidity makes your head explode, stop reading here.
She said "Well, I would have to get a ride to the office to apply.Then they would want me to fill out forms. Then they might expect me to get a job and go to school."
I blinked. Then I got kicked out because what came next was apparently the wrong thing to say to or about anyone who might be abused. "If you are too lazy to go get on welfare, then you deserve that beating you are getting. How lazy do you have to be to say that APPLYING FOR WELFARE is too much work? Either your life isn't that bad or you're a waste of air."
So why am I telling this story now? Because the person who told me I was too mean keeps popping up on my match list.
Do I condone abuse? No. Will I tell a lazy ho to get a job? Yes.
If you will excuse me, I am off to campaign against letting darkies and women vote.